I’ve thought always that I was too soft and friendly to be a leader. Now I’m stronger (but still friendly ;)), but this quote is an eyeopener for me
Leadership is not about personality; it’s about behavior—an observable set of skills and abilities.
According to the The Five Practices of Exemplary Leadership®-model, leaders are at their personal best there are five core practices common to all: they Model the Way, Inspire a Shared Vision, Challenge the Process, Enable Others to Act, and last but certainly not least, they Encourage the Heart.
read more at The Five Practices of Exemplary Leadership® Model.